Are you feeling lost on how to support a family member or friend struggling with addiction or mental health? “Pretend I Don’t Know Anything” is your guide. Hosted by Mike Jones, co-founder & Executive Director of Lighthouse Recovery Texas, this podcast equips you with the knowledge and tools to make a difference. Gain insights from expert interviews, hear inspiring stories of hope, and discover practical tips to navigate these challenges. Watch, listen, and subscribe for the support and guidance you need to empower yourself and your loved one.
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Episode 15: A Path Through Recovery and Resilience
In this episode, Mike Jones and Dr. Brooke Keels discuss the profound journey of recovery, the power of community, and how the 12-Step process transforms lives. Mike opens up about reconnecting with a friend who’s endured life’s challenges, highlighting the strength, fellowship, and self-realization that recovery builds. Dr. Keels shares her unique perspective as a clinician, emphasizing how true growth often follows hardship, and how communities like AA provide essential tools to face life’s highs and lows. They explore the importance of self-reflection, accountability, and building a foundation that supports resilience, well-being, and healthy relationships.
Episode 14: Embracing Change and Finding Hope in Recovery
In this episode, Mike Jones and Grant Young discuss their personal journeys through addiction and recovery, sharing the emotional challenges they faced along the way. The discussion explores the critical moments of realizing that addiction doesn’t define one’s character and how, with the right support, anyone can recover and thrive. This episode is a testament to the power of resilience and the importance of trusting the process, taking one step at a time, and believing that change is possible. Join us for an episode filled with raw emotion, powerful insights, and the inspiration to keep moving forward, no matter the obstacles.
Episode 13: The Role of Medication in Treating Substance Abuse and Mental Health
This episode highlights a shift in how we view Substance Abuse and Mental Health issues. Previously, substance abuse was often seen as a personal failing, and mental health concerns were heavily stigmatized. Today, there’s a greater understanding that both can stem from underlying medical conditions. This has led to more open conversations and a willingness to seek help. However, there’s an ongoing debate about the role of medication in treatment. Some believe medication is crucial for recovery, while others emphasize addressing the root causes of substance use before medication can be effective.
Episode 12: How to Address Substance Abuse and Mental Health
This episode discusses co-occurring disorders, where mental health and substance abuse issues happen together. The speakers, Mike Jones and Grant Young, explore the challenges of untangling these conditions and how they can worsen each other. They emphasize that both conditions need to be treated together for successful recovery. We go over these Key Points: 1) It’s often difficult to determine whether mental health issues lead to substance abuse or vice versa. 2) People may use substances to self-medicate underlying mental health problems. 3) Substance abuse can worsen mental health problems. 4) Accurate diagnosis requires sobriety because substance use can alter test results. 5) Treatment plans should address both mental health and substance abuse issues.
Episode 11: Parenting Young Adults in a New Era
This episode talks about how parents of young adults are facing a new set of challenges, and how to overcome them. Their children are struggling with issues like anxiety and lack of motivation. Coach Kim, a parent coach, suggests these struggles may stem from social media, overprotective parenting, and a tough job market, among other things. She emphasizes that parents can’t control their adult children’s behavior, but can focus on setting healthy boundaries and managing their own emotions. By letting go of control and learning to navigate this new phase, parents can empower their young adults to find their own way.
Episode 10: Detox and Hospitalization
Deciding on detox can be overwhelming, but this episode breaks it down into two main scenarios: emergencies and non-emergencies. If someone is experiencing severe withdrawal symptoms, especially from alcohol, call 911 immediately as it can be life-threatening. For non-emergency situations, there are various detox options to consider. While comfort levels range from basic to luxury facilities, it’s important to remember that detox is not a hotel, but a safe environment for medically supervised withdrawal. The typical stay lasts 3-10 days, but it’s just the first step. A plan for further treatment like therapy or rehab is crucial for long-term recovery.
Episode 9: Understanding Inpatient Addiction Treatment: Part 2
This episode dives into finding the right residential treatment center for addiction recovery. It’s crucial to choose a facility that aligns with your needs, not just marketing promises. Consider your priorities: program length, facility size, and treatment focus areas (trauma, co-occuring disorders, etc.). We discuss key questions to ask, like family involvement, staff qualifications, and treatment approaches offered. The episode also explores the benefits of smaller facilities with experienced staff and lower turnover rates. While activities and experiential therapy can be valuable additions, a strong focus on clinical therapy and medication management is key.
Episode 8: Understanding Inpatient Addiction Treatment
This episode dives into inpatient addiction treatment, unpacking what to expect during a stay and how to find a quality facility. We explore the typical 28-45 day program, including detox, therapy, and discharge planning. You’ll learn how to choose a facility that is focused on long-term recovery and strong aftercare, not just repeat business. We also go over many specific questions you can ask these programs in order to better understand their overall approach and quality of treatment.
Episode 7: The Role of an Interventionist in Addiction Recovery
This podcast episode discusses intervention for substance use and mental health disorders. An interventionist can be a helpful resource for families struggling with a loved one’s addiction. Interventionists can help set boundaries and determine the appropriate level of treatment. It’s important to find a qualified interventionist who communicates well and collaborates with the family and treatment facility. While intervention may not always lead to immediate success, it can be a valuable step in the recovery process. Help is available for those struggling with addiction, and intervention can be a good starting point.
Episode 6: Introduction to Dr. Brooke Keels
This episode dives into the world of family therapy with Dr. Brooke Keels, the Chief Clinical Officer of Lighthouse Recovery Texas. Dr. Keels discusses her background growing up in a helping profession family and what led her to specialize in working with families struggling with substance abuse. She shares her personal experiences that fueled her passion for this work, along with why she chose Marriage and Family Therapy as her chosen profession.
Episode 5: When Parents Should Take Immediate Action
This episode tackles the crucial topic of recognizing mental health emergencies and navigating when and how to seek help. These include concerns about suicide, self-harm, psychosis, mania, paranoia, and substance abuse affecting mental health. The episode equips families with tips for recognizing warning signs, encouraging them to take all these issues very seriously. Ultimately, this episode empowers families to seek help for mental health and Substance Abuse concerns and know when immediate professional intervention is necessary.
Episode 4: Understanding The First Steps in Addiction Treatment
This episode dives into helping a loved one navigate addiction treatment. Therapy is highlighted as a crucial first step to explore underlying issues and build coping mechanisms. Medication from a psychiatrist might be needed, but it’s not always the initial solution. Open communication with the therapist is essential, including how they assess progress and address setbacks. While residential treatment is an option, consider exploring less intensive interventions first. Do your research to find qualified professionals and treatment centers.
Episode 3: How to Start the Conversation About Substance Abuse
Having a loved one suspected of struggling with drugs can be a frightening and isolating experience. This episode aims to equip you with the tools to navigate this difficult conversation. Dr. Brooke Keels and Mike Jones offer guidance on how to approach your loved one with concern and compassion. The episode emphasizes the importance of open communication. Talking directly to your loved one allows you to express your worries and offer support. Acknowledge their potential fear of judgment and make it clear that you’re there to help, not blame. Resistance is common, but persistence and a willingness to find the right resources, like therapy, can make a big difference.